I took a few days off for personal reasons. For those who know, thank you. The funny thing is I never manage to really get away from my job. I am either doing research or talking to friends to find out what I am not seeing. No one is perfect and something that seems utterly incomprehensible to me might seem fine to someone else.
I talked to a caller who has a serious fetish for Black cock on my 'Friday'. He describes himself as a heterosexual man in a committed relationship but, he fantasizes about worshiping Black cock as a submissive. I don't talk to this man often. He only calls very late at night. I didn't recognize him, at first, and started out with a strong Black Domme persona. Because of his fetish, this doesn't quite work with this caller even though he likes being dominated by a Black woman. When he started asking about how I have sex with a black man, I should have figured it out, dammit. Oh hell, It was late and I was slow on the uptake. He expressed amazement that I would dominate a Black man, didn't wanted to get 'plowed' by a big Black cock and he viewed fellatio as a submissive act. He has obviously never been restrained and had a woman use her her mouth to tease him. An act I highly recommend, by the way. He had trouble accepting the idea that sometimes a Domme is a Domme all the time and not just a woman waiting to find a man strong enough to make her submissive. A great many men suffer from this lack.
But, I'm not going to talk about that right now. What I am going to talk about is my friend's reaction to being told about this caller's fetish. Ying Yu, (yes, its a pseudonym, you don't need to know his name) is a young, intelligent, well-mannered, politically active Black man with a healthy and sensitive attitude about sex. So I was surprised when I started talking about this caller's fetish and he started grinning like a maniac. In a flash, I realized that a part of him LOVES being viewed as a sexual fetish. Little brat. He started telling me about why he likes it but, we got sidetracked into talking about cock-size fetishes instead.
The alcohol may have had something to do with it.